Thursday, June 7, 2012

The Sex - Penetration Failure to Make a Pair


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The Sex - Intimate relationships are a process that begins with foreplay (heating) and then ends with penetration and orgasm. However, under certain conditions, the couple might have had difficulty penetrating.

Here are some factors that caused the couple failed to penetrate (the inclusion of Mr P)
1.      Miss V was sick

It is usually common in first time sex. "Intimate relationships first, because of inexperience, often done in haste, without adequate foreplay," explains Dr. Andri Wanananda MS, sexologists from Jakarta Tarumanegara University Medical Faculty, in consultation detikHealth.

As a result, continued Dr. Andri, when the penetration of the penis will feel pain in the vagina for lubrication (pelendiran) vagina is not enough. This gives rise to irritation in the vaginal wall, can also be the hymen (Hymen) that causes blood spotting.
2.      Can not erect

To be an erection (sexual tension) to perfection, the penis needs blood vessel elasticity and a stable heart rhythm to pump blood to the part.

But there are many factors that could cause male erection, such as stress and depression, alcohol, drugs, anger, restlessness and anxiety, obesity, negative self-image, low libido or certain health conditions.
3.      sexual trauma

Sexual trauma can also be psychological reasons that cause the failure of penetration. For example, women who are too afraid of pain during the first night because many believe the myth, or had experienced sexual harassment. In men, trauma or sexual abuse can also cause depression which resulted in erectile failure.
4.      tickled

Hypersensitive nerves that can make the body very straight face during sex. This could happen to any one or even both partners, resulting in failure of penetration.

"Zone erotic, erotic name alone, should be able to arouse sexual desire or lust instead of being amused. Each individual is different layout erotiknya zone. Then the couple should wait to find erotic zones which can generate heat, which would trigger lubrication (pelendiran) vagina , "explained Dr Andri.
5.      external factors

In addition to the physical condition, there are external conditions that make mood or sex drive partner sudden decrease or even disappear altogether, which in turn leads to failure of penetration.

For example a baby or sudden crying, dying for a pee mate, body odor and other factors that can decrease sexual desire.

The Sex - She is the Miss V Make It So 'Beautiful'


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The Sex - Vaginal hygiene and health shall be maintained to avoid health problems and the creation of a good quality of sexual life. You need to know the problems that often occur in the vagina and how to overcome them.

The following 8 problems that often occur in the vagina, as reported from womenshealthmag, Thursday (06/07/2012), among others:

1. Vaginal yeast infection

Yeast is a fungus that lives in the vagina in small amounts, but it will cause infection if the fungus is growing in excessive amounts. When you wear underwear or a bathing suit which was just a rope, would swipe the vagina when you move.

The friction will cause a small wound on the delicate skin around the vulva and clitoris that will create access for microbes. Fungi will grow on the wound and cause yeast infections.

Use underwear made of fabric that you can breathe and vagina drier, so bacteria can not grow easily.

2. You do not get a period after taking birth control pills

The hormones used in birth control pills can disrupt the body's natural performance as the process of ovulation and menstruation. You will get a period again after some time to stop using birth control pills.

The absence of menstrual periods or irregular periods, known as amenorrhea. If you still do not get your period within 3 months, stop using birth control pills and consult a gynecologist. Amenorrhea may be a symptom of other health problems.

3. You feel there are small fluid-filled lumps that grow in the vagina

This is caused by obstruction of Bartholin gland. Bartholin glands of two organ under the skin of the vagina is the size of a bean that is involved in the process of vaginal lubrication. If the gland is blocked, the secretion of lubricating fluids are trapped and cause the growth of small lumps of soft, smooth and swollen near the vaginal opening.

Bartholin the clogged usually benign and require no treatment. You may be able to cope with the warm water bath for 20 minutes two or three times a day.

If the lump becomes painful or growing larger in size, your doctor may suggest to perform marsupialization procedure. These procedures include draining the lump, then sew the bumps on the outer wall to create a new channel. Treatment in this way will heal in about a month.

4. Vaginal dryness

Vaginal dryness can be caused by many things, including dehydration, taking certain medications (antihistamines), treatments that either, thinning of the mucosa and changes in hormone levels during menopause. Vaginal dryness will cause pain when penetration.

Use a lubricant for vaginal dryness. Choose water-based lubricants because it is safer if used in conjunction with condoms.

Oil-based lubricants can damage the integrity of the condom. Avoid using a lubricant that is colored, scented, and have a sense because it can trigger a yeast infection and can eventually worsen the drought.

5. You transmit the fungus in the vagina to the partner's penis

It is indeed rare, but a man can develop symptoms of redness, itching, or discomfort after having unprotected sex with an infected partner.

Men can be risky if not taking antibiotics, have diabetes, compromised immune system or if a man is not circumcised. The foreskin creates a moist environment conducive to mold growth.

Antifungal drug used to treat the condition, but you should delay having sex until the symptoms completely disappear. That way, you will reduce the risk of infecting each other each other.

6. Vaginal pain during sex due to the oblique position of the uterus

Certain sex positions can be more painful than others if the position you are in a state tilted uterus. Consult your gynecologist to find out if your uterus is tilted or not.

The uterus is too skewed to be more painful when you have sex. Such as female sex positions that are above, can reduce the discomfort.

7. There is a burning sensation when urinating after having sex

There are several things that causes the hot sensation when urinating after intercourse intimate, such as the friction is too strong to vaginal dryness. Overcome by soaking in warm water after sex. Use a lubricant during sex to prevent this from happening again.

It can also be caused by infections of the urinary tract or vagina. Check with your state to see a doctor, a doctor may prescribe antibiotics. You can prevent infection of the bladder by urinating before and after sex.

8. You smell the fishy smell and feel itchy in the vagina when having sex

The reason could be because the normal balance of bacteria in the vagina disrupted due to an increase in the amount of harmful bacteria. Bacterial vaginosis can be triggered by mutually sex partners.

Other symptoms include vaginal discharge, itching and burning sensation. If left untreated, bacterial vaginosis can cause serious health problems such as premature birth, postpartum infections, pelvic inflammatory disease, and increased vulnerability to HIV infection.

While this condition can be treated as treatment with antibiotics metronidazole or clindamycin. Women who have experienced premature birth or low birth weight babies should be checked to see if there are symptoms of bacterial vaginosis.