The Sex - Dear Mrs. Zoya. I am a
man aged 29 years, I have a strange sexual fantasies are eager to see his wife
got pregnant by her ex but merely knocked up. In the sense of allowing his wife
to have children of her ex-boyfriend. Not out of boredom but somehow all of a
sudden there is a thought like that.
Is it wrong? And how to eliminate such thoughts? Please help.
Spell (Married man, 29 years), ejaXXXXX@yahoo.com
Height: 170 cm Weight 57 kg
Answer
I seem to need to ask. One, when you have the desire to be your wife got pregnant by her ex even more powerful desire seems that you need to ask me if it's wrong, guilt is actually already on your self from the start.
It may be that normally if to ask if any of you, how to eliminate it and thought so, because the thought was too strong. So that means there is a conflict between what comes out of your mind and what is in the heart.
The question is, what makes you lack confidence in yourself. The question again, if you feel intimidated by your wife's condition so you can have the image in such a way so that your wife could be impregnated by another man.
Maybe deep down you are feeling in the most secure in there that makes you less worthy of your wife. But this is just a guess, I could be wrong.
So ideally try to think carefully, ask yourself what makes you confident it's not. It's possible you do not feel comfortable with yourself, you might feel intimidated by your wife that you have the shadows as you tell me. Congratulations thoughtful.
Zoya Amirin, M.Psi
Sexual psychologist certified by the educational background of sexual psychology. Chairman of the Community Study of Sexual Attitudes and also a member of the Indonesian Association of Sexology.
Instructor courses Reproductive Health Sciences, Human relations, Public Relations, Communication Sciences at the Basic School of Public Health, University of Indonesia.
Is it wrong? And how to eliminate such thoughts? Please help.
Spell (Married man, 29 years), ejaXXXXX@yahoo.com
Height: 170 cm Weight 57 kg
Answer
I seem to need to ask. One, when you have the desire to be your wife got pregnant by her ex even more powerful desire seems that you need to ask me if it's wrong, guilt is actually already on your self from the start.
It may be that normally if to ask if any of you, how to eliminate it and thought so, because the thought was too strong. So that means there is a conflict between what comes out of your mind and what is in the heart.
The question is, what makes you lack confidence in yourself. The question again, if you feel intimidated by your wife's condition so you can have the image in such a way so that your wife could be impregnated by another man.
Maybe deep down you are feeling in the most secure in there that makes you less worthy of your wife. But this is just a guess, I could be wrong.
So ideally try to think carefully, ask yourself what makes you confident it's not. It's possible you do not feel comfortable with yourself, you might feel intimidated by your wife that you have the shadows as you tell me. Congratulations thoughtful.
Zoya Amirin, M.Psi
Sexual psychologist certified by the educational background of sexual psychology. Chairman of the Community Study of Sexual Attitudes and also a member of the Indonesian Association of Sexology.
Instructor courses Reproductive Health Sciences, Human relations, Public Relations, Communication Sciences at the Basic School of Public Health, University of Indonesia.
