The Sex - Always Feel Pain If Length Sex Old

The Sex - Doc, why every time you have if the duration is too long I always feel pain in the vagina intercourse, like the pain? So does the skin around the genital area is very easy to feel sore. How do I fix this?

Eka F (Female Married 25 Years), echaXXXXXXXXXXX@yahoo.com
Height 158 cm and weight 58 Kg

answer

You are experiencing may be related to the lubrication (pelendiran) vagina that is not optimal.

In the intimate relationship of long duration, pelendiran vagina will be reduced to cause irritation of the vaginal wall, which makes you feel pain. Also the skin outside the vagina (vaginal lips around the outside / labia majora) also painful, because the irritation of erotic motion shaft of the penis.

Recommended, in order to make a longer foreplay to stimulate more vaginal lubrication. Until the long duration of intercourse, vaginal mucus is rapidly diminishing.

Dr. Andri Wanananda, MS
Members of the Indonesian Doctors Association (IDI) and the Association of Sexology Indonesia (ASI) and lecturer at the Faculty of Medicine, University of Tarumanegara Jakarta.

The Sex - Loss of Sexual Desire wife, Must What?

The Sex - Why every time I touch with my husband, I felt the pain and tenderness in Miss V? This has happened about a year. Currently I have no sexual desire, even if I do it because I felt sorry for her husband but rarely to orgasm. Conditions of what I have experienced this? Could be cured?

Ni (Married Women, 28 years), putuXXX@yahoo.co.id
Height 158 cm and weight 41 Kg

answer

Actually, what you experience as experienced by many newly married women or women who had sexual intercourse for the first time. Women's relative need to feel psychologically comfortable to make him aroused.

I suspect when copulating, you have not really turned on so that a lack of lubrication in the vagina that makes penetration of penis in vagina feels sore.

Buy first aid gel for sexual intercourse. You can select it at the pharmacy. Invite a gel husband bought both, so my husband knows you want to enjoy sex with her.

If you are truly sorry for the husband, then after using the gel enjoy your sexual relationship. You should also be happy that your husband will be sad if it does not make you sexually satisfied.

Zoya Amirin, M.Psi
Certified sex psychologist who has a background of sexual education in psychology. Chairman of the Community Study of Sexual Behavior, a member of the Indonesian Association of Sexology.

Instructor courses Reproductive Health Sciences, Human relations, Public Relations, Communication Sciences at the Basic School of Public Health, University of Indonesia.