Monday, July 9, 2012

The Sex - Survey: When Children Have New, Rare Sex Couples and often noisy


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The Sex - One thing that completes the happiness of married couples are blessed with a child. But in fact a survey revealed that the presence of children in a wedding actually reduce the frequency of the couple's lovemaking.

Complete the survey reveals that 6 out of 10 new parents about sex, even one of the three couples fight more often after the child was born.

In addition, 4 of 10 fathers and new mothers admitted after a child, spouse so it looks less attractive. This certainly raises Dugan that the presence of children may be damaging the couple's relationship.

61 percent of parents claim is often made ​​a fuss about parenting a child with only half of the participants who spent quality time with their partners once a month.

Survey performed by the site childcare, Yano shows that 42 percent of women who are no longer attracted to her husband after giving birth tend to blame the financial pressures and domestic work as the cause.

As reported by the indianexpress, Monday (09/07/2012), the survey also revealed that a number of new mothers claimed to hate her husband's approach to being a father and believes her husband should take greater responsibility for raising children, whereas men tend to only complain about the style parenting their children.

6 out of 10 new parents also admitted her intimate relationships have been destroyed since having a child with only 28 percent who still have sex even once a month and 5 percent once a year, even 7 percent of couples admitted to not having sex at all.

The Sex - Glad to Wear and G-String Knickers Wife Before Sex


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The Sex - My marriage age is 12 years. Lately I like to wear G-strings or CD my wife before the ML, and the wife has no problem with my behavior is even really like, and the frequency of ML every other day. Is my behavior was normal?

Ardhi (Married man, 38 years), zakarXXXXX@yahoo.co.id
Height: 160 cm Weight 55 kg

answer

Actually there are deviant sexual behaviors in which an individual can only feel aroused when swapping clothes including underwear with the opposite sex.

The problem that is considered deviant sexual behavior, sexually deviant behavior only include non-consensual or no coercion. So if your wife can enjoy your sex life even better in my opinion so it does not drift anymore.

Deviation remained normal, but an aberration, where you should be grateful you still enjoy sexual relations. Deviant or not, do not make your sex life to be decreased. Although this is an aberration but as can be enjoyed, so it should still enjoy it do not worry about deviant label or not. The important thing is you both enjoy.

Zoya Amirin, M.Psi
Sexual psychologist certified by the educational background of sexual psychology. Chairman of the Community Study of Sexual Attitudes and also a member of the Indonesian Association of Sexology. Instructor courses Reproductive Health Sciences, Human relations, Public Relations, Communication Sciences at the Basic School of Public Health, University of Indonesia.