The Sex - Why I say No Virgin And Unprecedented Penetration

The Sex - Doc I want to ask, how's character is still virgin? I hesitated, because this is the second time I heard that I was not virgin anymore. The first one told me my ex boyfriend and that both my fiance (both foreigners) when we only had oral sex only and has not been penetrated.

I'm confused how come, but I never connected with anyone. But I remember when I first junior ever to fall off the bike about 4 times the right of the holder, I still remember the pain until now, how it docks? Thank you.

Rena C (Women's Singles, 25 Years), minXXXXX@yahoo.com
Height 161 cm and weight 62 Kg

answer

Rather strange and erroneous statement that both your partner. Intact hymen (Hymen) should be checked by obstetricians or midwives, specialists in obstetrics clinics through intra-vaginal examination procedure. The layman (layman) might not be able to execute it.

Trauma could be hard on the buttocks cause irritation to the hymen, but it happens very rarely.

Worth considering as a reflection: "Why is virginity (virginity) is always questionable. But, the problem of" virginity "is never questioned. This shows the lack of gender equality.

Dr. Andri Wanananda, MS
Members of the Indonesian Doctors Association (IDI) and the Association of Sexology Indonesia (ASI) and lecturer at the Faculty of Medicine, University of Tarumanegara Jakarta.

The Sex - Husband Dress As Women Married 12 Years After

The Sex - I have been married for 12 years and has 3 children, my husband likes to wear or dress up like women, but my husband just love or are interested in the opposite sex (female).

He already had this disorder before meeting me, but I just found out after marriage. Once i was asked, he as a child just playing with cousin sister, play dishes and cook-houses like the girls in general.

As an adult he never hung out with a transsexual, so increasingly encouraged her desire to dress up like women. He has repeatedly tried to change but could not.

Can it be cured? And whether he could be a normal man? How to cure?

Lala (Married Women), teawXXXX@yahoo.com
Height: 150 cm Weight 50 kg

Answer

Sdri.Lala good. At first glance I thought your husband might be a transvestite, or individuals who can be aroused if the use or dress up as women. Can be cured or not I do not dare say anything because it was necessary counseling to determine the diagnosis.

Frankly sdri.Lala, in fact if your husband satisfy you sexually, not physically or emotionally cheating with another woman during marriage, regardless of the habit of wearing women's clothes at home, it seems your partner is a husband and good father to you and your family .

If your husband dressed woman in the house just is not made public, my advice is you better relax accept 'custom antique' your husband. After all, do not hurt anyone and did not violate the law. Enjoy life :)


Zoya Amirin, M.Psi
Certified sex psychologist who has a background of sexual education in psychology. Chairman of the Community Study of Sexual Behavior, a member of the Indonesian Association of Sexology.

Instructor courses Reproductive Health Sciences, Human relations, Public Relations, Communication Sciences at the Basic School of Public Health, University of Indonesia.