Wednesday, July 18, 2012

The Sex - What result if most Masturbation?


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The Sex - Sexual activity including masturbation is healthy, but if done to excess then there are impacts. What are the consequences if a person is mostly masturbation?

Dr. Andri Wanananda, MS said in a survey ever conducted in Britain known to men who frequently masturbate while married then he can have premature ejaculation.

"This was his habit of playing alone with inanimate objects, so when he needs to meet with the couple masturbation and premature ejaculation sometimes occurs," said Dr. Andri, when contacted detikHealth and written on Wednesday (07/18/2012).

Dr. Andrew explains when a person associated with a partner so he needs to take into account whether the condition has reached klimkas partner or not, this condition can make a person feel stressed or depressed, causing premature ejaculation.

"If masturbation by hand or they can set their own SEXTOYS and love-love him, but if the spouse can not play alone, according to sexologists who also teaches at the Faculty of Medicine, University of Tarumanegara Jakarta.

Further disclosed when playing with inanimate objects, then this object can not be protested or cried. By contrast, if she and her spouse, if he had reached the climax while her partner could not protest. This certainly could affect the psychological conditions such as anxiety and stress.

Dr. Andrew acknowledged that it did not all have been affected by this, but one result that can lurk if most masturbation is premature ejaculation. Whereas in women until now there has been no study.

"As long as these activities are done with good physical fitness and hygienic or clean, then there is no health impact. For example, in women using dildos, dirty hands or so he felt the vagina or clitoris then it could cause an infection. The same thing could happen to men, "he said.

Meanwhile, Zoya Amirin sexual psychologist said that most of masturbation and its purpose was just to vent their sexual arousal, the effect may not be having sex with a partner.

"If masturbation he could skip some processes, while that with no phase-pair and excited stages of the pair can not be managed, so it would be premature or may not have 1-2 hours of ejaculation," said Zoya.

Zoya suggested masturbation should be done when a person feels comfortable and willing to explore themselves, so as 'me time', because if you aim only for sexual gratification it can be addictive.

The Sex - How much time Masturbation is Normal?


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The Sex - Masturbation is sexual activity is done alone with the help of inanimate objects. Although it can be done alone, the number of times that masturbation is normal to do?

"The amount is relative, which is important in doing so did not disrupt their routine activities as well as creativity," said Dr. Andrew Wanananda, MS.

Dr. Andri explained eg office employees not to interfere with their work time so as not to reprimand the boss, or artists do not interfere with their creativity and can still produce work.

"Because there are people who masturbate to disrupt the activities, when it's like that you should consult a doctor because there may be psychological or psychiatric disorders," said the doctor who is also a member of Sexology Association of Indonesia (ASI).

Furthermore, Dr. Andrew revealed the ability of many masturbation is also influenced by age, for example if young people could probably do it every day but when it's 70 years old or 60-month old probably only 1-2 times.

This is because the old people sex drive or decreased sexual desire or even gone. Sexual arousal is dependent on hormones, the older the testosterone levels decline, as well as in women at menopause hormones is also reduced.

"In addition to the parents' fantasies, hormonal and physical fitness decreased, while the fantasy of people who are young and good physical fitness, so you can masturbate more," said Dr. Andrew.

In children or young teens, he had a fantasy or see his idol and not be having sex, then it will use fantasy to masturbate because sometimes the fantasy plays a large role. For that principle is important in masturbation does not interfere with routine activities.

The same thing was also expressed by the Psychologist Sexual Zoya Amirin that are most important during masturbation is not to make people not want to work, or do not make it not want to hang out then it is still normal.

"If he did not want to hang out, work is interrupted or delayed or do not want to do nothing but masturbate then it is not normal," said Zoya.

Zoya said masturbation is a healthy sexual activity because it does not get people pregnant or impregnated and not subject to sexual infections. Masturbation also helps a person to have sexual mapping (map sexual).

Yet there are studies that say masturbation is considered normal amount done 2-3 times a week or 12 times a month. If more than it could be dangerous.

The Sex - Why Men More Often Than Girls Masturbation?


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The Sex - Men and women actually have the same basic body, ie eating, drinking and sex. But for the affairs of masturbation, why more men than women?

"The goal is to seek orgasm from masturbation but with the manual method using a hand or a tool like SEXTOYS. Maybe if the big cities the numbers are balanced between men and women who masturbate, but here women are more permissive and completely depressed," explains Dr. . Andri Wanananda, MS, sexologists and lecturer at the Faculty of Medicine, University of Tarumanegara Jakarta.

The same opinion is also expressed sexual psychologist Amirin Zoya, M.Psi. According to the woman who also works as a lecturer at the Faculty of Public Health, University of Indonesia, is essentially the number of women who masturbate are also nearly equal to men. It's just that most women are shy to admit it.

What's more, many women who think that masturbation is as bad as a prostitute.

"Shy girl, do not want to say. It's so girls think gini 'Oh really like a whore at all anyway." And right when we become a wife, a ballpark, it should be a whore in bed, so noble in the living room, an economist in the kitchen . Do not be so noble in bed, because her husband later bete so as gedebong (bars) banana, or even a prostitute in the living room, so the opposite, "said Zoya Amirin, M.Psi, when talking with detikHealth.

According to Zoya, the psychology of sexual masturbation masturbation is actually the healthiest because it can make a woman have sexual finished mapping. That is, women know the maps erotic in his body, in addition to breast and vagina.

Because basically, masturbation is healthy is to explore yourself. If women are hard to reach orgasm, then masturbation could be one solution, so that he could know the erogenous zones on her own.

"Girls are hard orgasm, masturbation mustinya to find her spot. So he can drive this pair must now relate. It would be very helpful for sexual performance," said Zoya.