The Sex - Is it normal if penetration is just one minute?

The Sex - I have been married almost a year, I want to ask is how long does it normally penetrate? Is it normal that my initial touch only 1 to 2 minutes was straight out of sperm? But if you can even continue long that my wife has not come out in pain so I stopped the relationship of sperm? Please explanations dock.

Herianto (Married Female, 28 years), ajaXXXX@yahoo.com,
Height 163 cm, weight 54 Kg

answer

If only 1 to 2 minutes of penetration penis in your vagina is ejaculation, orgasm while the wife was not an indication of an unsuccessful intercourse. You're experiencing is not Premature Ejaculation (ED) because after ejaculation you can linger wife ML to feel pain.

Clearly, the duration of erection is important, but much more importantly the end result, ie, you and your wife can enjoy orgasm. Thus, foreplay should be done well, with enough stimulation to erotic zones wife. This will trigger the vaginal wall lubrication experienced, it is also a passion with his wife rise to the 'hill orgasm'.

At this moment right before the penetration of the penis performed. Could have occurred 1 to 2 minutes of penetration of the penis, wife orgasm immediately. It is far more valuable than penile penetration of the old but she does not reach orgasm.

Dr. Andri Wanananda, MS
Members of the Indonesian Doctors Association (IDI) and the Association of Sexology Indonesia (ASI) and lecturer at the Faculty of Medicine, University of Tarumanegara Jakarta.

The Sex - Telling Husband Wife Sex with Other Men

The Sex - I have a wife who has been married for 5 years. I have a problem with my husband, my husband likes to see me when having sex with other men. This happened two years.

When he saw me in touch with another man she was getting aroused and very passionate to me, when I refused he so excited. I've done it several times with other men, at first tormented but I try to enjoy it, please input.

Widhy (Married woman, 33 years), widhyXXXX@yahoo.co.id
Height: 165 cm Weight 59 kg

Answer

Widhy mother, I was quite saddened by your situation because I'm sure it's very hard to be you. On the one hand you love your husband, you want him happy but you have to sacrifice your feelings.

Try to ask yourself again if it was true love is worth hanging on and passed. I highly-highly recommend asking for help because obviously Consular marriage your husband need psychological help because after all the conditions are not normal because you are forced to do so.

So look for help along with a partner, if your partner refused to return the question there yourself, are you sure want to continue where the wedding will always be asked to do something that is uncomfortable to do, is not happy and did not also improve the marriage relationship, not getting to make that connection for the better.

Imagine if you already have children or even how you talk about how you behave and build intimacy with your husband while the husband you always need someone else or someone else to increase sexual desire in bed.

Please consider carefully, if you are still able to continue this marriage, seek the help of Consular marriage because I believe this can not continue like this because you are not comfortable and it can be considered a marital relationship is not healthy.

Zoya Amirin, M.Psi

Sexual psychologist certified by the educational background of sexual psychology. Chairman of the Community Study of Sexual Attitudes and also a member of the Indonesian Association of Sexology.

Instructor courses Reproductive Health Sciences, Human relations, Public Relations, Communication Sciences at the Basic School of Public Health, University of Indonesia.