Wednesday, June 27, 2012

The Sex - When a new Married But lackluster Penetration, What reason?


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The Sex - Doc, I recently got married and I got married 2 weeks early (first week honeymoon), sex with my wife going well. After that my wife was menstruating, then after my period and I want to have sex with his wife, Mr. P i lackluster until several days later.

This condition is brought to mind and continues to this day I fear of erectile dysfunction dock in my very young age. And even now when they want to penetrate the vagina of my wife, my penis straight lackluster.

What should I do doc? Oh yes, I am a young first time masturbation frequently (often once a week). Is this also could be the cause? Thank you.

Antok (Married man, 26 years), laziaXX_XXXXX@telkom.net
Height 170 cm and weight 75 Kg

answer

When the honeymoon of your sexual activity with current wife, is your guide to normal, do not suffer from erectile dysfunction,.

Once you are menstruating wife, suddenly Mr P sluggish, should be observed with ease. Sexual relations are determined by physical fitness and mental tranquility (not being stressed). When the honeymoon, happy atmosphere contribute to physical fitness and psychological support you.

Think positive, as a newlywed couple obstacles early in the process of intimate relationships are commonplace. With patience and cooperation based on love, you will be able to resolve the issue.

Dr. Andri Wanananda, MS
Members of the Indonesian Doctors Association (IDI) and the Association of Sexology Indonesia (ASI) and lecturer at the Faculty of Medicine, University of Tarumanegara Jakarta.

The Sex - Is it normal if the Wife Likes To Have Sex Fantasy?


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The Sex - Ms. Zoya, I tend to fantasize to be submissive (obedient) and the subject of women. In my imagination, I am willing to be the object of gratification of lust as she held my face, step on my body and face, licking all over her body, and others.

But I do not want if accompanied by torture (torture) that can physically hurt like whips, candles and other BDSM equipment.

In addition, I am also a foot fetish (obsessed and aroused at the foot of the couple). So if you see her, I would note first leg, though nothing as beautiful as if her feet did not fit my type then I would ilfeel against her. Did the opposite, although ordinary face, but my legs go type, then I would be interested in her legs and I could make a fantasy.

But for the record, I can not fantasize ugly woman with legs that are still in touch brother. Do you think it's an oddity that Ms. dangerous? Can I be cured? Though I really enjoyed my fantasy and hoping to find a wife who would fulfill my fantasy. Thank you

Flam (Single Male, 26 years), dubois_XXXXXXXXXX@yahoo.com
Height 167 cm and weight 80 Kg

Answer

For me the important thing is you include people who know what you want and how you enjoy your sexual relationship.

I'm sure you can get a suitable partner because once you know what you want. Moreover, did you explain that you do not like torture or physical injury, and so on.

As long as you want to be satisfying a woman and as you explain that you prefer other forms of submissive and subject to the ladies, I'm sure there are quite a lot of women can enjoy sex with you including your fetish habits.

As long as it does not hurt and there was no illegal things that relate to your sexuality I believe no one should be healed.

That there is, you are now looking for a partner who can understand and enjoy equally adored by your feet. Enjoy!

Zoya Amirin, M.Psi

Certified sex psychologist who has a background of sexual education in psychology. Chairman of the Community Study of Sexual Behavior, a member of the Indonesian Association of Sexology.

Instructor courses Reproductive Health Sciences, Human relations, Public Relations, Communication Sciences at the Basic School of Public Health, University of Indonesia.