The Sex - Adolescent girls are confused with Sexual Orientation

The Sex - I feel there are any irregularities in me. I feel mediocre when adjacent to the guy, but when talking to fellow tomboy girl I was groggy.

I am concerned about the behavior of my disorder. Please explain whether this is normal? And how can I become a normal person?

Jessica (Female Single, 18 years), yeziXXXX@yahoo.co.id
Height 158 cm and weight 60 Kg

answer

Create Jessica, age 18 years is really where you start to broaden horizons and see the flavors your interest in the surroundings, maybe male or female.

If I think you should not give any label on yourself first. You might be more nervous on the tomboy girl, maybe there is a sense of fancy, but it can only be determined by your sexual orientation if you do have keterangsangan sexually. For example, imagine a kiss, if you ever touch that you can better determine it is to have sexual orietasi homosexual or heterosexual.

But whatever it is, I suggest to continue to accept yourself as you are, more open to what you feel before you get too busy to give judgment or adjudgement yourself.

Just enjoy your youth once, if you fall in love with same-sex or opposite sex to let it flow is an important first question is always back to the heart whether you are happy and enjoy what you can enjoy in your life.

Zoya Amirin, M.Psi
Certified sex psychologist who has a background of sexual education in psychology. Chairman of the Community Study of Sexual Behavior, a member of the Indonesian Association of Sexology.

Instructor courses Reproductive Health Sciences, Human relations, Public Relations, Communication Sciences at the Basic School of Public Health, University of Indonesia.

The Sex - Breastfeeding After Breast sagging fruit, so Operation Options

The Sex - After breast-feeding women may experience changes in breast shape. The breasts become more down and loose. To improve the shape of the breast, surgery has become the choice of many women.

Breast surgery after giving birth is now becoming popular and the number increased more than 71 percent since 1997. This is because of the trend, especially among the mothers in the current era is very concerned with appearances.

Breast surgery procedures are most commonly requested breast augmentation or also known as augmentation mammaplasty, because this operation is expected to enhance the overall high satisfaction.

"The hormones associated with pregnancy and breast-feeding causes the breasts to lose volume and sag look. Because breast enlargement after childbirth most often required to restore the shape and proportions," said Dr Stuart Geldenhuys, cosmetic surgeon from Cape Town, as quoted from Health24, Monday (6/18/2012).

Dr Geldenhuys said that this condition will make women feel better, increase confidence and sensuality. Currently women are more conscious about his appearance to look good and remain attractive even after having children, as well as the medical and technological advances that can optimize performance.

"The ideal is to perform this procedure after a woman has a child, and if done properly then there is no significant impact. But if you really want to do before having children is also not a problem," he said.

In many cases, a woman's ability to breastfeed or not more likely to be based on inherent breast tissue compared with the result of breast augmentation procedure itself.

For that this procedure does not affect the nursing process as long as done by physicians who are professional in their field. However, this procedure is recommended after completion mother breastfeeding her baby exclusively for 6 months.