The Sex - I have been married
since 2007. In 2011 I was pregnant yesterday. Then the content of my fall and I
am exposed to TB disease and should be healing therapies to date. From that
time until now my pregnancy was very difficult to get ejaculate during
intercourse.
I also never had a bad experience my husband had an affair some time ago, I was slowly trying to forget the incident, but I can not completely forget about until now.
My question is, what is the real cause of trouble getting my ejaculation? Do syndrome after pregnancy? Factors Tuberculosis drug therapy I, psychological factors, or something else? I say thank you as much for the answer. Regards, Reyna
Reyna (Married woman, 28 years), reynaXXXXXX@gmail.com
Height: 160 cm Weight 60 kg
Answer
Mrs. Reyna ejaculation was only experienced by men, perhaps you mean you can not orgasm or excited at all or you might not vaginal discharge or wet.
What caused you to not get an orgasm or not stimulated at all, if my guess of the diagnosis at a glance it seems that there is a psychological problem.
Indeed, many women after pregnancy is relatively decreased because the concentration of sexual arousal in children and because of hormonal changes are quite large but it's not the real reason.
So chances are you still hard to forgive the bad experience of a cheating husband because both of you may have never really discussed.
Let me suggest, this time the two of you sit down again and tell me what makes you forgive infidelity weight or what makes you sick to know her husband had an affair.
Ask your husband to hear that this is not menjudge or to discredit your husband, but tell your husband that you need to express your negative feelings, so you can move on to the next can forgive your husband.
Express your feelings hurt you but please to not discredit or accuse your husband. Suffice it to say I feel sad when I learned this, I feel sad because I think like this. Always all started with me feeling sad.
After her husband heard nothing should be described or explained let's try to talk together to start something new. How can so you can both start together something new that does not happen again affair.
What can you do both so that the husband no longer berseligkuh and there is no potential for cheating as hurt by the husband replied.
Thus if both of you are sitting and talking about the hurt that never existed, I believe the problem after the pregnancy, your tuberculosis therapy, and so it will not significantly affect the sexual relationship and comfort you both in bed.
Now we just focus on psychological problems how to forgive, to speak again so you can both together build a better relationship in the future.
Zoya Amirin, M.Psi
Sexual psychologist certified by the educational background of sexual psychology. Chairman of the Community Study of Sexual Attitudes and also a member of the Indonesian Association of Sexology.
Instructor courses Reproductive Health Sciences, Human relations, Public Relations, Communication Sciences at the Basic School of Public Health, University of Indonesia.
I also never had a bad experience my husband had an affair some time ago, I was slowly trying to forget the incident, but I can not completely forget about until now.
My question is, what is the real cause of trouble getting my ejaculation? Do syndrome after pregnancy? Factors Tuberculosis drug therapy I, psychological factors, or something else? I say thank you as much for the answer. Regards, Reyna
Reyna (Married woman, 28 years), reynaXXXXXX@gmail.com
Height: 160 cm Weight 60 kg
Answer
Mrs. Reyna ejaculation was only experienced by men, perhaps you mean you can not orgasm or excited at all or you might not vaginal discharge or wet.
What caused you to not get an orgasm or not stimulated at all, if my guess of the diagnosis at a glance it seems that there is a psychological problem.
Indeed, many women after pregnancy is relatively decreased because the concentration of sexual arousal in children and because of hormonal changes are quite large but it's not the real reason.
So chances are you still hard to forgive the bad experience of a cheating husband because both of you may have never really discussed.
Let me suggest, this time the two of you sit down again and tell me what makes you forgive infidelity weight or what makes you sick to know her husband had an affair.
Ask your husband to hear that this is not menjudge or to discredit your husband, but tell your husband that you need to express your negative feelings, so you can move on to the next can forgive your husband.
Express your feelings hurt you but please to not discredit or accuse your husband. Suffice it to say I feel sad when I learned this, I feel sad because I think like this. Always all started with me feeling sad.
After her husband heard nothing should be described or explained let's try to talk together to start something new. How can so you can both start together something new that does not happen again affair.
What can you do both so that the husband no longer berseligkuh and there is no potential for cheating as hurt by the husband replied.
Thus if both of you are sitting and talking about the hurt that never existed, I believe the problem after the pregnancy, your tuberculosis therapy, and so it will not significantly affect the sexual relationship and comfort you both in bed.
Now we just focus on psychological problems how to forgive, to speak again so you can both together build a better relationship in the future.
Zoya Amirin, M.Psi
Sexual psychologist certified by the educational background of sexual psychology. Chairman of the Community Study of Sexual Attitudes and also a member of the Indonesian Association of Sexology.
Instructor courses Reproductive Health Sciences, Human relations, Public Relations, Communication Sciences at the Basic School of Public Health, University of Indonesia.
