Wednesday, July 18, 2012

The Sex - Why Men More Often Than Girls Masturbation?


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The Sex - Men and women actually have the same basic body, ie eating, drinking and sex. But for the affairs of masturbation, why more men than women?

"The goal is to seek orgasm from masturbation but with the manual method using a hand or a tool like SEXTOYS. Maybe if the big cities the numbers are balanced between men and women who masturbate, but here women are more permissive and completely depressed," explains Dr. . Andri Wanananda, MS, sexologists and lecturer at the Faculty of Medicine, University of Tarumanegara Jakarta.

The same opinion is also expressed sexual psychologist Amirin Zoya, M.Psi. According to the woman who also works as a lecturer at the Faculty of Public Health, University of Indonesia, is essentially the number of women who masturbate are also nearly equal to men. It's just that most women are shy to admit it.

What's more, many women who think that masturbation is as bad as a prostitute.

"Shy girl, do not want to say. It's so girls think gini 'Oh really like a whore at all anyway." And right when we become a wife, a ballpark, it should be a whore in bed, so noble in the living room, an economist in the kitchen . Do not be so noble in bed, because her husband later bete so as gedebong (bars) banana, or even a prostitute in the living room, so the opposite, "said Zoya Amirin, M.Psi, when talking with detikHealth.

According to Zoya, the psychology of sexual masturbation masturbation is actually the healthiest because it can make a woman have sexual finished mapping. That is, women know the maps erotic in his body, in addition to breast and vagina.

Because basically, masturbation is healthy is to explore yourself. If women are hard to reach orgasm, then masturbation could be one solution, so that he could know the erogenous zones on her own.

"Girls are hard orgasm, masturbation mustinya to find her spot. So he can drive this pair must now relate. It would be very helpful for sexual performance," said Zoya.

Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Strange The Sex - Sexual Fantasies For Want impregnated his ex wife


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The Sex - Dear Mrs. Zoya. I am a man aged 29 years, I have a strange sexual fantasies are eager to see his wife got pregnant by her ex but merely knocked up. In the sense of allowing his wife to have children of her ex-boyfriend. Not out of boredom but somehow all of a sudden there is a thought like that.

Is it wrong? And how to eliminate such thoughts? Please help.

Spell (Married man, 29 years), ejaXXXXX@yahoo.com
Height: 170 cm Weight 57 kg

Answer

I seem to need to ask. One, when you have the desire to be your wife got pregnant by her ex even more powerful desire seems that you need to ask me if it's wrong, guilt is actually already on your self from the start.

It may be that normally if to ask if any of you, how to eliminate it and thought so, because the thought was too strong. So that means there is a conflict between what comes out of your mind and what is in the heart.

The question is, what makes you lack confidence in yourself. The question again, if you feel intimidated by your wife's condition so you can have the image in such a way so that your wife could be impregnated by another man.

Maybe deep down you are feeling in the most secure in there that makes you less worthy of your wife. But this is just a guess, I could be wrong.

So ideally try to think carefully, ask yourself what makes you confident it's not. It's possible you do not feel comfortable with yourself, you might feel intimidated by your wife that you have the shadows as you tell me. Congratulations thoughtful.

Zoya Amirin, M.Psi

Sexual psychologist certified by the educational background of sexual psychology. Chairman of the Community Study of Sexual Attitudes and also a member of the Indonesian Association of Sexology.

Instructor courses Reproductive Health Sciences, Human relations, Public Relations, Communication Sciences at the Basic School of Public Health, University of Indonesia.