The Sex - Keep track of Love and Sexual Desire Relationships in Brain

The Sex - Love and sexual desire may be related to each other because both are controlled by the brain. But it turns out both are controlling a different area in the brain but affect each other.

The researchers conducted an analysis of 20 previous studies that do monitor on a person's brain activity when looking at erotic pictures or photographs partner.

This analysis is intended to show the relationship between feelings of love with sexual desire in the human brain. It turned out that love and sexual desire activates two distinct but related areas of the brain.

Specific regions activated by a desire, such a fun activity such as sex or food. Then the other areas activated by love, for example, linked by a sense of fun prizes, awards and even a drug addiction.

True love is a habit formed from sexual desire to the desire to feel appreciated. Feelings of love works the same way as in the brain when people are addicted to drugs.

Love also activate pathways in the brain that involves the desire to bind the partner's feelings or the desire to have each other. Some areas of the brain will be less active when people experience love than when feeling sexual desire.

"Sexual desire has a very specific purpose, while the goal of love is more abstract and complex," said study author Jim Pfaus, a professor of psychology at Concordia University in Montreal, as reported by the health, Friday (06/29/2012).

The Sex - Why I say No Virgin And Unprecedented Penetration

The Sex - Doc I want to ask, how's character is still virgin? I hesitated, because this is the second time I heard that I was not virgin anymore. The first one told me my ex boyfriend and that both my fiance (both foreigners) when we only had oral sex only and has not been penetrated.

I'm confused how come, but I never connected with anyone. But I remember when I first junior ever to fall off the bike about 4 times the right of the holder, I still remember the pain until now, how it docks? Thank you.

Rena C (Women's Singles, 25 Years), minXXXXX@yahoo.com
Height 161 cm and weight 62 Kg

answer

Rather strange and erroneous statement that both your partner. Intact hymen (Hymen) should be checked by obstetricians or midwives, specialists in obstetrics clinics through intra-vaginal examination procedure. The layman (layman) might not be able to execute it.

Trauma could be hard on the buttocks cause irritation to the hymen, but it happens very rarely.

Worth considering as a reflection: "Why is virginity (virginity) is always questionable. But, the problem of" virginity "is never questioned. This shows the lack of gender equality.

Dr. Andri Wanananda, MS
Members of the Indonesian Doctors Association (IDI) and the Association of Sexology Indonesia (ASI) and lecturer at the Faculty of Medicine, University of Tarumanegara Jakarta.

The Sex - Husband Dress As Women Married 12 Years After

The Sex - I have been married for 12 years and has 3 children, my husband likes to wear or dress up like women, but my husband just love or are interested in the opposite sex (female).

He already had this disorder before meeting me, but I just found out after marriage. Once i was asked, he as a child just playing with cousin sister, play dishes and cook-houses like the girls in general.

As an adult he never hung out with a transsexual, so increasingly encouraged her desire to dress up like women. He has repeatedly tried to change but could not.

Can it be cured? And whether he could be a normal man? How to cure?

Lala (Married Women), teawXXXX@yahoo.com
Height: 150 cm Weight 50 kg

Answer

Sdri.Lala good. At first glance I thought your husband might be a transvestite, or individuals who can be aroused if the use or dress up as women. Can be cured or not I do not dare say anything because it was necessary counseling to determine the diagnosis.

Frankly sdri.Lala, in fact if your husband satisfy you sexually, not physically or emotionally cheating with another woman during marriage, regardless of the habit of wearing women's clothes at home, it seems your partner is a husband and good father to you and your family .

If your husband dressed woman in the house just is not made public, my advice is you better relax accept 'custom antique' your husband. After all, do not hurt anyone and did not violate the law. Enjoy life :)


Zoya Amirin, M.Psi
Certified sex psychologist who has a background of sexual education in psychology. Chairman of the Community Study of Sexual Behavior, a member of the Indonesian Association of Sexology.

Instructor courses Reproductive Health Sciences, Human relations, Public Relations, Communication Sciences at the Basic School of Public Health, University of Indonesia.

The Sex - Is cholesterol foods can disturb Sex?

The Sex - Dear Sir, Ma'am Zoya, my friend would like to ask what is the impact of high food berkolestrol of psychosexual, let alone as a crew boat that is rarely home. Sometimes once a year, new behind the fastest ship and month 3 months at home. Above explanation is spoken thanks.

Marfan (Married Female, 46 years), marfanXXXX@gmail.com,
Height 165 cm, weight 72 Kg

answer

If your friend was a man of the problems of high berkoresterol foods will interfere with cardiovascular or blood flow. Which as we know ketidaklancaran blood flow caused by unhealthy lifestyles, like smoking, drinking alcoholic beverages, food less berfiber (fiber), including a high berkoresterol can cause you interrupted impotence or premature ejaculation.

So if you do not want to experience things as impotence or premature ejaculation either try to change the lifestyle associated with food berkoresterol and start trying to exercise.

Zoya Amirin, M.Psi

Certified sex psychologist who has a background of sexual education in psychology. Chairman of the Community Study of Sexual Behavior, a member of the Indonesian Association of Sexology.

Instructor courses Reproductive Health Sciences, Human relations, Public Relations, Communication Sciences at the Basic School of Public Health, University of Indonesia.

The Sex - Husband Can not Always Long For Ticklishness

The Sex - I have been married almost 6 months, my husband every ML can not be long especially when I am in control over the position. The reason he could not play long was because he felt his cock while being tickled in the ML.

Actually it is normal or not and whether it has something to do with my pussy?

Dian S (Women Married, 23 years), lita_XXXXXX@yahoo.com
Height: 150 cm Weight 47 kg

answer

The process begins with foreplay sexual intercourse, a feeling, a touch of the erotic zones conducted by husband and wife. This triggers sexual arousal to a variety of sex positions.

That arise when tickled when the ongoing penetration of the penis into the vagina, the possibility of foreplay do not optimal. But, hopefully not an excuse to avoid the shortcomings of one spouse, such as premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction.

For those of you who just married 6 months, foreplay is not optimal is the most common cause. Strive to work closely with her ​​husband to guide the process of sexual intercourse that harmony can be achieved up to a beautiful ML purposes, namely reproduction (producing offspring), and recreation.

Dr. Andri Wanananda, MS
Members of the Indonesian Doctors Association (IDI) and the Association of Sexology Indonesia (ASI) and lecturer at the Faculty of Medicine, University of Tarumanegara Jakarta.