The Sex - When a new Married But lackluster Penetration, What reason?

The Sex - Doc, I recently got married and I got married 2 weeks early (first week honeymoon), sex with my wife going well. After that my wife was menstruating, then after my period and I want to have sex with his wife, Mr. P i lackluster until several days later.

This condition is brought to mind and continues to this day I fear of erectile dysfunction dock in my very young age. And even now when they want to penetrate the vagina of my wife, my penis straight lackluster.

What should I do doc? Oh yes, I am a young first time masturbation frequently (often once a week). Is this also could be the cause? Thank you.

Antok (Married man, 26 years), laziaXX_XXXXX@telkom.net
Height 170 cm and weight 75 Kg

answer

When the honeymoon of your sexual activity with current wife, is your guide to normal, do not suffer from erectile dysfunction,.

Once you are menstruating wife, suddenly Mr P sluggish, should be observed with ease. Sexual relations are determined by physical fitness and mental tranquility (not being stressed). When the honeymoon, happy atmosphere contribute to physical fitness and psychological support you.

Think positive, as a newlywed couple obstacles early in the process of intimate relationships are commonplace. With patience and cooperation based on love, you will be able to resolve the issue.

Dr. Andri Wanananda, MS
Members of the Indonesian Doctors Association (IDI) and the Association of Sexology Indonesia (ASI) and lecturer at the Faculty of Medicine, University of Tarumanegara Jakarta.

The Sex - Is it normal if the Wife Likes To Have Sex Fantasy?

The Sex - Ms. Zoya, I tend to fantasize to be submissive (obedient) and the subject of women. In my imagination, I am willing to be the object of gratification of lust as she held my face, step on my body and face, licking all over her body, and others.

But I do not want if accompanied by torture (torture) that can physically hurt like whips, candles and other BDSM equipment.

In addition, I am also a foot fetish (obsessed and aroused at the foot of the couple). So if you see her, I would note first leg, though nothing as beautiful as if her feet did not fit my type then I would ilfeel against her. Did the opposite, although ordinary face, but my legs go type, then I would be interested in her legs and I could make a fantasy.

But for the record, I can not fantasize ugly woman with legs that are still in touch brother. Do you think it's an oddity that Ms. dangerous? Can I be cured? Though I really enjoyed my fantasy and hoping to find a wife who would fulfill my fantasy. Thank you

Flam (Single Male, 26 years), dubois_XXXXXXXXXX@yahoo.com
Height 167 cm and weight 80 Kg

Answer

For me the important thing is you include people who know what you want and how you enjoy your sexual relationship.

I'm sure you can get a suitable partner because once you know what you want. Moreover, did you explain that you do not like torture or physical injury, and so on.

As long as you want to be satisfying a woman and as you explain that you prefer other forms of submissive and subject to the ladies, I'm sure there are quite a lot of women can enjoy sex with you including your fetish habits.

As long as it does not hurt and there was no illegal things that relate to your sexuality I believe no one should be healed.

That there is, you are now looking for a partner who can understand and enjoy equally adored by your feet. Enjoy!

Zoya Amirin, M.Psi

Certified sex psychologist who has a background of sexual education in psychology. Chairman of the Community Study of Sexual Behavior, a member of the Indonesian Association of Sexology.

Instructor courses Reproductive Health Sciences, Human relations, Public Relations, Communication Sciences at the Basic School of Public Health, University of Indonesia.

The Sex - After 20 Years of Marriage, the Husband So Love Boy

The Sex - I am male 45 years old and married with one child. I was married 20 years and I feel normal men. But this year I had two like the same sex aged 17 to 30 years and am active in gay ML.

However, I also remain strong with my wife. The problem is I too often feel lust with my child (male, age 19 years). How do I handle it? Thank you

Wibra (Married man, 45 years), albertXXXXX@yahoo.co.id
Height: 178 cm Weight 70 kg

answer

Wibra pack, if you have a passion to sex of your child as you can tell, I think it is time to consult with experts.

First, you need to know your household may not endangered because frankly even if you are having an affair with a permanent homosexual affair and almost all of infidelity would not be good for the growth of your family.

Keterangsangan sense if they are true to the boys you could also indicate a problem with your sexual behavior.

So I can only recommend not be dealt with only through a correspondence course, try contacting an expert because I think you need konsuling and further therapy.

Zoya Amirin, M.Psi

Certified sex psychologist who has a background of sexual education in psychology. Chairman of the Community Study of Sexual Behavior, a member of the Indonesian Association of Sexology.

Instructor courses Reproductive Health Sciences, Human relations, Public Relations, Communication Sciences at the Basic School of Public Health, University of Indonesia.

The Sex - Menstrual Cycle Why Are So Long As Fertility Treatment?

The Sex - Doctor, my PCO patients. This time the doctor gave me clomiphene 100gr and this month my eggs measure 21 and 25mm, the doctor said was normal size. But the problem becomes the length of the menstrual cycle to 41 days (previously 32 days), why is it doc? And this month I was doing insemination (as the husband's sperm is less), with the condition of the cell size of 21 and 25 fertile eggs (day 29 after LMP), but it's been 4 days after insem, my basal body temperature does not rise, usually with conditions like this, my body temperature would rise every period and he said it's a sign of ovulation dock. But the moon does not rise until day-33 after HPHT, why did not it? Get help to explain it dock. Thank you

Lily (Married Women, 31 years), bungakuXXXX@yahoo.com,
Height 157 cm, weight 52 Kg

answer

Showed a rise in basal temperature ovulation, basal temperature measurement condition is done properly. The menstrual cycle is longer than 35 days are not indicative of ovulation.

The hormone HCG is advised when the size of the follicles (potential eggs) on the ovaries had reached 18-25 mm to ensure and regulate the time of ovulation.

The Sex - Guilt haunted by Some Girl For Sex

The Sex - Zoya Dear Ma'am, I never associated sex with some girl massage. Never once did not use condoms. Indeed, at the time it takes, but because I am not married. I had stopped and was remorseful.

Now I want to start a new life with a sheet of marrying a good girl. I am often distressed by the guilt of my past. I am more guilty for loving me exactly the type of rough and not the opposite sex and be faithful.

Often the question arises, why I used to do it? What should I do? Thank you very much.

Haru (Single Male, 29 years), bamXXXXXX@yahoo.com
Height 160 cm and weight 59 Kg

answer

You have to do now is faithful to one partner, marry someone you love and do not be cheated. Actually as simple as that, the past it was not able to restore or change.

So if indeed you say you are the type to care so loyal and loving your partner, do not do rude and faithful to your partner.

Zoya Amirin, M.Psi

Certified sex psychologist who has a background of sexual education in psychology. Chairman of the Community Study of Sexual Behavior, a member of the Indonesian Association of Sexology.

Instructor courses Reproductive Health Sciences, Human relations, Public Relations, Communication Sciences at the Basic School of Public Health, University of Indonesia.

The Sex - Without Penetration Orgasm Is it normal?

The Sex - Doc and my wife have sex almost every day. But my wife always orgasm through oral or through my fingers into her vagina, not through my penis.

Is wife an orgasm without penterasi it is still fairly normal? It was only after my wife was premature orgasm through penetration. Did we have sex normally dock?

M. Pian (Married Female, 25 years), masanXXXX@gmail.com,
Height 173 cm, weight 87 Kg

answer

Achieving orgasm and erotic zone is determined by how menstimulasinya and the most sensitive regions is different for every individual. For your wife might erotiknya zones of the vagina by way of oral stimulation (Cunnilinghus) or manually (by hand) that trigger it to orgasm. Followed later by the penetration of your penis into her vagina which can make you ejaculate.

So the conclusion is that sexual relations undertaken by you and your wife is very normal and varied.

Dr. Andri Wanananda, MS
Members of the Indonesian Doctors Association (IDI) and the Association of Sexology Indonesia (ASI) and lecturer at the Faculty of Medicine, University of Tarumanegara Jakarta.