The Sex - In the
age of 20 year marriage, sex began to diminish and even disappear. Ever tried
to fantasize, even with all the style but not the expected increase arousal.
Finally, try to fantasize or close to other people, hoping to motivate sex, the opposite result. Because she knows our affairs, so the angry wife was not excited. What should be done to re-warm as it used to be?
Aliek (Married man, 45 years), aliekXXXX@gmail.com
Height: 168 cm Weight 70 kg
Answer
So warm as it used to be, it certainly did not get with other people approaching. Do you try to increase the feeling of affection and love for his wife.
So I suggest before sexual fantasies, first ask for forgiveness from your wife first. Try to repair again jointly if necessary ask to build a marriage consular assistance and help in order to be able to forgive your wife.
Second, the most ideal way is I suggest you for a little over a month collect everything from memory the first time you get married to this day for anything that would make you love your wife. What makes you so interested in him, and what makes you excited about him.
Collect all of the list, hopefully this will help you to revive your love for the wife.
Decline in sex drive is usually caused by a lack of love because we are already involved in the routine. So we do not want to try to raise or develop or even continue to build intimacy and recalling the things that make us love, and passionately interested in our partner.
Including trying to get used to the praise and see excess pair. With diligence we see our partner's strengths will help us also to attach feelings again as a partner.
So do not take medication, do not go near the other was even more pronounced. The ideal is to make a list. If you can list frequently written and read, be remembered for one month. Then kontempelasikan (reflection) and reveals all that list after finding it completely flat.
Revealed to the wife that this is the stuff that I love from you and I would still love you. These lists aim to be more quickly forgiven and his love and passion woke up again it would be okay again as well as first time first time.
Zoya Amirin, M.Psi
Sexual psychologist certified by the educational background of sexual psychology. Chairman of the Community Study of Sexual Attitudes and also a member of the Indonesian Association of Sexology. Instructor courses Reproductive Health Sciences, Human relations, Public Relations, Communication Sciences at the Basic School of Public Health, University of Indonesia.
Finally, try to fantasize or close to other people, hoping to motivate sex, the opposite result. Because she knows our affairs, so the angry wife was not excited. What should be done to re-warm as it used to be?
Aliek (Married man, 45 years), aliekXXXX@gmail.com
Height: 168 cm Weight 70 kg
Answer
So warm as it used to be, it certainly did not get with other people approaching. Do you try to increase the feeling of affection and love for his wife.
So I suggest before sexual fantasies, first ask for forgiveness from your wife first. Try to repair again jointly if necessary ask to build a marriage consular assistance and help in order to be able to forgive your wife.
Second, the most ideal way is I suggest you for a little over a month collect everything from memory the first time you get married to this day for anything that would make you love your wife. What makes you so interested in him, and what makes you excited about him.
Collect all of the list, hopefully this will help you to revive your love for the wife.
Decline in sex drive is usually caused by a lack of love because we are already involved in the routine. So we do not want to try to raise or develop or even continue to build intimacy and recalling the things that make us love, and passionately interested in our partner.
Including trying to get used to the praise and see excess pair. With diligence we see our partner's strengths will help us also to attach feelings again as a partner.
So do not take medication, do not go near the other was even more pronounced. The ideal is to make a list. If you can list frequently written and read, be remembered for one month. Then kontempelasikan (reflection) and reveals all that list after finding it completely flat.
Revealed to the wife that this is the stuff that I love from you and I would still love you. These lists aim to be more quickly forgiven and his love and passion woke up again it would be okay again as well as first time first time.
Zoya Amirin, M.Psi
Sexual psychologist certified by the educational background of sexual psychology. Chairman of the Community Study of Sexual Attitudes and also a member of the Indonesian Association of Sexology. Instructor courses Reproductive Health Sciences, Human relations, Public Relations, Communication Sciences at the Basic School of Public Health, University of Indonesia.
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