The Sex - I am a single guy has a
girlfriend. I've worked, I stayed close to my girlfriend, our lives are free.
Honestly a few months after dating, I feel the same passion if both my
girlfriend so did my girlfriend. Both like each other couples must kiss, touch,
grope, hugs and so on, we're doing on the consensual.
ML berpkir had the same girlfriend for me, I know my girlfriend actually did not resist, in fact there is always a chance to do that but I have a commitment to maintain (not tear her virginity) and I was able to control at that time. But after that I am sometimes disappointed, but on the other hand I really want it.
My question is, what should I do to avoid it? But I can not eliminate the desire or lust. I'm afraid if ML before marriage is not happy after getting married later.
Cahyo (Married man, 22 years), adjoXXXX@gmail.com
Height: 165 cm Weight 48 kg
Answer
My advice try deh discussed this issue with your partner keterangsangan. You say that you are very passionate and you want to have sex with your partner.
Ask your partner how you feel about what you feel. If for example you have a commitment and there are fears that the ML later so unhappy after marriage you also discuss with your partner.
Because Bagimana else if you just want to quit or maintain their own commitment, while you continue to have sexual contact with the body's way of making you horny, it's the same thing when one is fasting mess continue to see food go to the refrigerator. It's making yourself dizzy with your girlfriend.
Whatever you decide, heck I still recommend if you can not have sex until you're married, because you do not know you will continue or not with your partner. And do not let her just because sex is, you so want to get married to your partner and then later have to feel guilty and so true too complicated later.
Ideally, it did not have sex, but because you've done a lot of sexual contact that excites you please talk with your partner. Want to carry around this relationship, we would continue to do this alone and we are ready not when ML.
Then if we have ML so we do not end it all please discuss marriage. So as to resist or not resist having sex before marriage is not a decision you both on your own. Good luck ya!
Zoya Amirin, M.Psi
Sexual psychologist certified by the educational background of sexual psychology. Chairman of the Community Study of Sexual Attitudes and also a member of the Indonesian Association of Sexology.
Instructor courses Reproductive Health Sciences, Human relations, Public Relations, Communication Sciences at the Basic School of Public Health, University of Indonesia.
ML berpkir had the same girlfriend for me, I know my girlfriend actually did not resist, in fact there is always a chance to do that but I have a commitment to maintain (not tear her virginity) and I was able to control at that time. But after that I am sometimes disappointed, but on the other hand I really want it.
My question is, what should I do to avoid it? But I can not eliminate the desire or lust. I'm afraid if ML before marriage is not happy after getting married later.
Cahyo (Married man, 22 years), adjoXXXX@gmail.com
Height: 165 cm Weight 48 kg
Answer
My advice try deh discussed this issue with your partner keterangsangan. You say that you are very passionate and you want to have sex with your partner.
Ask your partner how you feel about what you feel. If for example you have a commitment and there are fears that the ML later so unhappy after marriage you also discuss with your partner.
Because Bagimana else if you just want to quit or maintain their own commitment, while you continue to have sexual contact with the body's way of making you horny, it's the same thing when one is fasting mess continue to see food go to the refrigerator. It's making yourself dizzy with your girlfriend.
Whatever you decide, heck I still recommend if you can not have sex until you're married, because you do not know you will continue or not with your partner. And do not let her just because sex is, you so want to get married to your partner and then later have to feel guilty and so true too complicated later.
Ideally, it did not have sex, but because you've done a lot of sexual contact that excites you please talk with your partner. Want to carry around this relationship, we would continue to do this alone and we are ready not when ML.
Then if we have ML so we do not end it all please discuss marriage. So as to resist or not resist having sex before marriage is not a decision you both on your own. Good luck ya!
Zoya Amirin, M.Psi
Sexual psychologist certified by the educational background of sexual psychology. Chairman of the Community Study of Sexual Attitudes and also a member of the Indonesian Association of Sexology.
Instructor courses Reproductive Health Sciences, Human relations, Public Relations, Communication Sciences at the Basic School of Public Health, University of Indonesia.
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