The Sex - This risk is Leaving Ugly Sperm fertilize eggs

The Sex - Many couples are less fortunate who are obsessed to have children and are willing to do anything in order to fulfill his desire. One way in which IVF is the procedure. In couples where the sperm-old man was no longer qualified, the result can be alarming.

In vitro fertilization methods there is a technique called ICSI, or intra-cytoplasmic sperm injection, the method of fertilization in vitro fertilization by injecting a single sperm into an egg cell.

Technique a single sperm is often done if the man has low sperm count, many abnormal sperm, or in extreme cases, have no sperm at all. All of these conditions cause the sperm to have a very small chance to produce fertilization.

"Many people argue, of course, the sperm quality is as good as the others. That is wrong. Sperm to the egg first before all other sperm is the sperm of the most superior, faster, more powerful, more than others," said Dr. Miriam Stoppard, a leading expert on family health of London as reported by the Daily Mirror, Sunday (07/08/2012)).

According to Dr. Stoppard, dangerous journey to fertilize an egg cell is useful to ensure that only the strongest sperm come out as winners. But with IVF methods, this does not happen.

Sperm that are used have not been tested by any method and may be less qualified. In this procedure, eggs are placed under a microscope and then injected with sperm from a male partner. If the egg has been fertilized, the fertilization was placed in the woman's uterus ready for implantation. This process is known as 'embryo transfer'.

"The doctors and scientists are always concerned with the physical condition of infants produced by the method of sperm. Several studies have recently confirmed that the fears are true. Data show an increase in the risk of significant birth defects," said Dr. Stoppard.

Researchers at the University of Adelaide in South Australia is a large scientific research to find answers to these concerns. The findings of an analysis of 300,000 more births showed that the rate of birth defects in the method of sperm is 1 in 10 births.

The amount is quite large when compared with unassisted births, where the level of disability is about 6 out of 100 births. This finding also confirms that not the method that causes birth defects, but sperm used was defective and less quality.

Low sperm quality is also suspected of causing the suffering of children born with autism, but not many studies that confirm this. In addition to its age, sperm quality may also decline because of lifestyle such as smoking and eating lots of food beremak, as well as many testicular exposure to heat.

The Sex - Myth of the First Night of Many Trust

The Sex - When the first night, the couple usually feels pleased and tense. It is more common in couples who do it for the first time. Why? Because there are many false myths about the first night can frighten. Though it is not necessarily the case.

Here are some false myths about the first night that many believed, as reported by Boldsky, Saturday (07/07/2012):

1. Myth: The first night she must be bleeding

According to most men, bleeding is a sign to prove that the woman was a virgin because when the hymen breaks, a woman will experience bleeding. However, the fact that not all women have to bleed to prove her virginity.

Frequent exercise which relaxes the pelvic muscles, lack of blood vessels in the hymen or the amount of lubrication, are all factors that can prevent women do not experience bleeding during the first intercourse.

2. Myth: Sex is always painful the first time

Many women are afraid to have sex just because he can not imagine letting her partner's penis into the vagina. It is believed that so much is now a myth. In fact, as not all women experience bleeding at first intercourse, as not all women have a hymen is intact. First time sex so painful when the hymen is still there.

Enough foreplay is the easiest method to make sex less painful first. And plus, some sports such as cycling, horse riding, martial arts and can stretch the hymen a little damage and make the muscles around the genitals become more tenuous, thus making sex the first time not too painful.

So do not worry, if the first night it was painful to do gradually.

3. Myth: Urinate after sex to prevent pregnancy

There is a myth that if a woman urinate immediately after sex, the sperm can get out of the vaginal canal so as to prevent pregnancy. When in fact, urine excreted through the ureter (bladder), while the sperm does not enter the uterus through the bladder. So it is not possible to prevent pregnancy only way to urinate after intercourse.

The Sex - Men who Easily Excited More Difficult Controlling Passion The sex

The Sex - Sex drive in men appear quickly and are often hard to control. There are some men who managed to reduce gejolaknya, but not a few men who do not successfully control the urge to make love. Scientists have discovered why it can happen.

Researchers from the University of British Columbia has found that men who can regulate sexual arousal is proved to be a people who can control his emotions.

"We suspect that if an individual can set up an emotional response to the well, then he will be able to arrange other emotional responses," said the researcher, Jason Winters as reported by Mid-Day, Friday (07/06/2012).

The study found that the average participant is able to control his sexual arousal when instructed to do so. In fact, researchers found an average decrease of erectile response by 25 percent.

"Men are more easily excited we found less able to control his sexual arousal. While men tend to restrain the expression of emotions are better able to prevent the erection," says Winters.

The study also found that men are best able to control the response to the porn video are also able to control his response when watching a comedy video. The opposite is true in people who are unable to control his response when I saw a comedy video.

"The most surprising finding is some people are more sexually aroused when trying to control his sexual arousal. In other words, they are more stimulated in the trial when asked to control his passion than an experiment in which they are only required to watch video," said Winters.

According to researchers, this occurs because of the increased anxiety experienced by participants. The same happens when asking someone to not think of a white elephant. People are most worried are the most difficult to not think about a white elephant.

The Sex - Exercise Can Be Done Together Sensual Couple

The Sex - Sometimes people feel bored if the same exercise. In order to exercise spirit does not fade, it could not hurt to try some of these sensual exercises.

Almost everyone knows what the benefits if a person exercising regularly, but sometimes doing the same routine can lead to boredom which leads to lazy to do sports.

Here are five sensual sport that can be done to break the boredom, as quoted from Timesofindia, Saturday (07/07/2012), namely:

1. Belly dance to maintain fitness
belly dance is popular in Middle Eastern countries is a great way to burn calories and make women feel sexy at the same time. This exercise helps tighten the abdominal muscles and buttocks, as well as increasing closeness to the couple.

2. Erotic massage and stretching partner
Partner stretching is stretching done with a partner who mostly do in bed, is not only keeping the body to keep fit but also keep your sex life.

After that could be followed by a massage in which each take turns to massage each other, this massage can help burn more calories.

3. Doing Kegel
This exercise can improve sexual performance as to strengthen the pubococcygeus muscles responsible for controlling the flow of semen, erection hardness, speed of ejaculation and orgasm in women reaching berbgai.

4. Exercises to improve sex
Certain exercises can make a person or couple have great sex, that exercise squats, push ups, bench press, dumbbell swing (menganyunkan small barbell from the bottom up or vice versa), bend the knees and deadlifts (barbell lifting of the bottom-up).

5. Doing cardio striptease
The essence of this exercise include the twist of hair, patting the buttocks, as well as to the position of the horses. This sensual routines can build confidence and improve relations with a partner. Cardio striptease cardio exercise is also included in general and lasted for 45 minutes to burn about 500 calories.

The Sex - Wife Always Say 'Have' I'm Cute, Must What?

The Sex - I have 3 months to be newlyweds, so far my wife is not satisfied with Mr. P i which he cute when I explained the importance of violence is not a small amount. And my wife was also able to ejaculate.

The question is how do I explain to my wife that my penis on 10 Cm if off 3 cm. Thank you.

Ahmad (Married man, 25 years), masteXXXXXX@mail.com
Height 170 cm and weight 95 Kg

answer

True hardness is more important than penis size. But the fact that your wife is not satisfied, maybe your wife an orgasm in which the vagina wife called the pincer movement spasm (sorry I corrected, ejaculation only occurs in men when the penis is semen containing sperm spraying, if a woman is aroused her vagina was wet lubrication but it's not ejaculated).

If you believe the wife was not because of dissatisfaction with the size of your penis, especially since you say your penis is hard, try a variety of other sexually-related styles. Hard penis that can provide a satisfying orgasm you are looking to live an optimal position intercourse. One of them try to force a woman on top or doggy style. Good luck.

Zoya Amirin, M.Psi
Sexual psychologist certified by the educational background of sexual psychology. Chairman of the Community Study of Sexual Attitudes and also a member of the Indonesian Association of Sexology. Instructor courses Reproductive Health Sciences, Human relations, Public Relations, Communication Sciences at the Basic School of Public Health, University of Indonesia.