The Sex - My age 30 years and wife of 29 years. We were married young,
we already have the wedding of a daughter. Our marriage age is now entering
year 7.
In the early years of marriage to enter into 3 deeply felt our sex is so run normally without any constraint. Frequency of 3-5 times a week between us.
But upon entering the following years, our sex life began to change. Wife who usually participate actively in bed appear from the cold. Often when I was invited there any reason related to his wife for refusing. This led to the dispute.
He had several times invited me to check the discussion to the experts, but he always refused. If rejected diranjang measuring satisfaction, I strongly believe to satisfy his wife.
Even when I decided to sleep with some woman on the rebound desire. All of these women expressed great satisfaction during lovemaking. My duration is relatively long when having foreplay can begin up to 20 minutes and the time duration of sex penetration can be up to 1 hour.
I would like to ask the dock:
1. What factors make my wife to change his sexual behavior?
2. Does the duration of my lovemaking is too long to make him bored?
3. What size women's satisfaction levels differ?
4. What path should we take out a household so we can get back to normal?
5. Does the presence of a child can affect a woman's passion? Thus some of the complaints that I can say. Terimkasih.
Eko P (Married man, 30 years), k0pXXX@gmail.com
Height 171 cm and weight 68 Kg
Answer
You actually have a life that is fine as you say especially with the frequency of sexual intercourse 3-5 times a week until it enters its 7th year earlier marriage.
Maybe you need variation and so on. So do not just focus on the bed alone. Maybe it's necessarily more roleplay game, making sexual fantasy or even a second honeymoon.
If the fear of leaving a child, may be deposited first to the grandmother or the family if she is old enough.
I regret your decision to having an affair with another woman only to find out whether you can satisfy wife in bed or not.
After all, even though all women satisfied by your saying but basically you still can not satisfy your wife.
So my advice is to stop trying to find a comparison with another woman because after all your wife's unique and different. So that is the way of handling it should focus on your wife.
If you are busy looking for justification by sleeping with another woman you can never be a focus to get about how to satisfy his wife again.
So if I may suggest, try starting a new step in the life of this marriage.
May perform the first adjustment in a way to stop cheating. Second, make a date to go alone to a second honeymoon. Third, please just leave your daughter had such a week, so you can have time alone together.
And tell me, how much you love your wife and you want to make him happy in bed. Try telling that during the honeymoon period so you can find more passion and love that had ever existed in your marriage.
Zoya Amirin, M.Psi
Certified sex psychologist who has a background of sexual education in psychology. Chairman of the Community Study of Sexual Behavior, a member of the Indonesian Association of Sexology.
Instructor courses Reproductive Health Sciences, Human relations, Public Relations, Communication Sciences at the Basic School of Public Health, University of Indonesia.
In the early years of marriage to enter into 3 deeply felt our sex is so run normally without any constraint. Frequency of 3-5 times a week between us.
But upon entering the following years, our sex life began to change. Wife who usually participate actively in bed appear from the cold. Often when I was invited there any reason related to his wife for refusing. This led to the dispute.
He had several times invited me to check the discussion to the experts, but he always refused. If rejected diranjang measuring satisfaction, I strongly believe to satisfy his wife.
Even when I decided to sleep with some woman on the rebound desire. All of these women expressed great satisfaction during lovemaking. My duration is relatively long when having foreplay can begin up to 20 minutes and the time duration of sex penetration can be up to 1 hour.
I would like to ask the dock:
1. What factors make my wife to change his sexual behavior?
2. Does the duration of my lovemaking is too long to make him bored?
3. What size women's satisfaction levels differ?
4. What path should we take out a household so we can get back to normal?
5. Does the presence of a child can affect a woman's passion? Thus some of the complaints that I can say. Terimkasih.
Eko P (Married man, 30 years), k0pXXX@gmail.com
Height 171 cm and weight 68 Kg
Answer
You actually have a life that is fine as you say especially with the frequency of sexual intercourse 3-5 times a week until it enters its 7th year earlier marriage.
Maybe you need variation and so on. So do not just focus on the bed alone. Maybe it's necessarily more roleplay game, making sexual fantasy or even a second honeymoon.
If the fear of leaving a child, may be deposited first to the grandmother or the family if she is old enough.
I regret your decision to having an affair with another woman only to find out whether you can satisfy wife in bed or not.
After all, even though all women satisfied by your saying but basically you still can not satisfy your wife.
So my advice is to stop trying to find a comparison with another woman because after all your wife's unique and different. So that is the way of handling it should focus on your wife.
If you are busy looking for justification by sleeping with another woman you can never be a focus to get about how to satisfy his wife again.
So if I may suggest, try starting a new step in the life of this marriage.
May perform the first adjustment in a way to stop cheating. Second, make a date to go alone to a second honeymoon. Third, please just leave your daughter had such a week, so you can have time alone together.
And tell me, how much you love your wife and you want to make him happy in bed. Try telling that during the honeymoon period so you can find more passion and love that had ever existed in your marriage.
Zoya Amirin, M.Psi
Certified sex psychologist who has a background of sexual education in psychology. Chairman of the Community Study of Sexual Behavior, a member of the Indonesian Association of Sexology.
Instructor courses Reproductive Health Sciences, Human relations, Public Relations, Communication Sciences at the Basic School of Public Health, University of Indonesia.
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