The Sex - The current generation
is growing and caring for many children like as a friend. The goal is good,
namely that the relationship between parent and child is more familiar and more
open communication. Unfortunately, due to bad parenting has on children.
Children will be more difficult to discipline and more stubborn.
According to a leading clinical psychologist from England, Professor Tanya Byron, the kids grow up to behave badly because his parents are too afraid to discipline. The emergence of trends that are trying to raise a child as a friend, not as someone who must be obeyed, to make a child approaching adolescence are not ready to face the real world.
"I much care for the children in the clinic with behavioral disorders due to the direct impact of these parenting tactics. Children aged 6 years was brought to my clinic because his parents were worried every time you try to set up, the child will become depressed," said Professor Byron as dialnsir Daily Mail on Sunday (7/22/2012).
These children, according to Professor Byron, so protected by parents who are afraid of disappointing their children. Parents are so busy that children are not out of reach so less to teach important life skills. Children who are raised without any limitations and specific tasks can be subject to development.
Children who always met every requirement will remain at the stage of emotional intelligence is not yet mature. When facing real world challenges in adulthood, the child will try again just to remember what it was like to feel safe at home with parents.
According to a psychologist, Dr Aric Sigman, the phenomenon of parents who become your friends can be caused by more and more women are choosing to start a family when he was old enough. There is a feeling that the children refused wishes would damage its relationship with parents. In addition, both parents also tend to work outside the home.
"The result is children rarely see their parents at home. Children begin displaying challenging behavior can also be caused by not getting the attention it needs. Parents feel guilty and let him rather than to discipline and the risk of making the child becomes angry," said Dr. Sigman.
Not only that, many school teachers in England are also dealing with children who have not been trained to use the toilet, the kids who always wanted fulfilled his wish and is not used to hearing the word 'not'.
"Parents do not do anything because they want the kids happy, try to make children behave well or make amends for not giving enough attention to how to buy a toy or gadget," said Dr. Mary Bousted, Secretary General of the Association of Teachers and Lecturers in the UK.
Dr Bousted insisted that parents should have the confidence to set the rules, assigning children to help tidy the house and encouraged him to be independent so that children are more confident and able to develop into strong adults.
According to a leading clinical psychologist from England, Professor Tanya Byron, the kids grow up to behave badly because his parents are too afraid to discipline. The emergence of trends that are trying to raise a child as a friend, not as someone who must be obeyed, to make a child approaching adolescence are not ready to face the real world.
"I much care for the children in the clinic with behavioral disorders due to the direct impact of these parenting tactics. Children aged 6 years was brought to my clinic because his parents were worried every time you try to set up, the child will become depressed," said Professor Byron as dialnsir Daily Mail on Sunday (7/22/2012).
These children, according to Professor Byron, so protected by parents who are afraid of disappointing their children. Parents are so busy that children are not out of reach so less to teach important life skills. Children who are raised without any limitations and specific tasks can be subject to development.
Children who always met every requirement will remain at the stage of emotional intelligence is not yet mature. When facing real world challenges in adulthood, the child will try again just to remember what it was like to feel safe at home with parents.
According to a psychologist, Dr Aric Sigman, the phenomenon of parents who become your friends can be caused by more and more women are choosing to start a family when he was old enough. There is a feeling that the children refused wishes would damage its relationship with parents. In addition, both parents also tend to work outside the home.
"The result is children rarely see their parents at home. Children begin displaying challenging behavior can also be caused by not getting the attention it needs. Parents feel guilty and let him rather than to discipline and the risk of making the child becomes angry," said Dr. Sigman.
Not only that, many school teachers in England are also dealing with children who have not been trained to use the toilet, the kids who always wanted fulfilled his wish and is not used to hearing the word 'not'.
"Parents do not do anything because they want the kids happy, try to make children behave well or make amends for not giving enough attention to how to buy a toy or gadget," said Dr. Mary Bousted, Secretary General of the Association of Teachers and Lecturers in the UK.
Dr Bousted insisted that parents should have the confidence to set the rules, assigning children to help tidy the house and encouraged him to be independent so that children are more confident and able to develop into strong adults.
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