The Sex - Not So Pumped with Good Wife After Fight

The Sex - I once had a big fight and got a harsh word from his wife and from then until now I am so excited about the wife who is now 38 years old. This is because when would I have always thought of having sex with his rude remarks to me.

Please explanations and solutions. Because this time I was sexually attracted to other women, but with his own wife bland taste and lack of passion. Thank you.

DC (Married man, 40 years), didXX_XXX@yahoo.co.id
Height 168 cm and weight 62 Kg

answer

Pak DC, did all that he had been scolded by his wife became less passion. There's disruption impotensia partial name (not turned on by his wife, but turned on by another woman).

The most important thing is if you still want to keep this marriage please do not cheat or fled to other women. If you do that, you certainly will not be able to save your home especially if you already have children.

The trick is that you should try to be in love again with my wife, if any quarrel suppose it is commonplace in the household.

Permanence of a household and sexual desire so that you can get up again is a forgiving wife. By way of forgiving and sincere, you can do the honeymoon again, the streets alone again.

Express why 'I still love you and you love me'. Because if you do not begin to express my affection and love for your wedding could be ruined.

Zoya Amirin, M.Psi
Certified sex psychologist who has a background of sexual education in psychology. Chairman of the Community Study of Sexual Behavior, a member of the Indonesian Association of Sexology.

Instructor courses Reproductive Health Sciences, Human relations, Public Relations, Communication Sciences at the Basic School of Public Health, University of Indonesia.

The Sex - Making love is difficult, But Parents Want to Quickly Grandchildren

The Sex - I have not been blessed with children after 2 years of marriage. I have difficulty to maintain tension while trying to touch my genitals with his wife. If it can surely only lasted a few tense minutes later my cum right out. My parents were waiting for my grandson and I stressed about this, especially because I often quarreled with his wife. Is there a drug that could treat me so that I can be normal again like a man? Please answer. Thank you

Andy G (Married man, 27 years), myandyXXXXXX@yahoo.com
Height 170 cm and weight 90 Kg

Answer

Mr. Andy I see your problem there are two possibilities, so let us try to solve them one by one.

First, you and your wife should check with your reproductive health of both the obstetrician for the wife, while your androlog.

Check if your wife's womb is not a problem as well with your sperm.

Second, the possibility of your inability to maximum erection is caused because the target to have children and often you quarrel with your wife.

Try for at least a weekend vacation together with your partner, talk about fun things that kids do not talk about the target.

Try for one day you two are doing a romantic dinner or walking together and make love because they want to make love only once. Forget for one night only that you have a target, your target is to satisfy your partner.

After making love to do the evaluation the following morning. Be affectionate to one another mutually. Make a romantic ritual such as by kissing each other before each went their activities.

Build small intimate ritual will affect your sex life more exciting for you both. Good luck.

Zoya Amirin, M.Psi
Certified sex psychologist who has a background of sexual education in psychology. Chairman of the Community Study of Sexual Behavior, a member of the Indonesian Association of Sexology.

Instructor courses Reproductive Health Sciences, Human relations, Public Relations, Communication Sciences at the Basic School of Public Health, University of Indonesia.

The Sex - Love Hormone Can Help Lose Weight

The Sex - During this time, oxytocin or commonly known as the hormone of love known to arise as a result of physical and psychological feelings that occur in pairs. In addition, this hormone also acts to stimulate uterine contractions and maintain milk-producing glands after childbirth.

But recently a team of researchers from Japan managed to find a new use of oxytocin is the effect of anti-metabolic syndrome and new anti-obesity. This indicates that oxytocin may help regulate food intake and energy metabolism without causing adverse side effects.

Previous research also led by Yuko Maejima link between a hormone produced by the brain to control the intake of energy and its use.

"These findings reveal the effect of anti-metabolic syndrome and new anti-obesity produced by oxytocin," said Maejima of Jichi Medical University in Shimotsuka, Japan as reported by the aphroditewomenshealth, Tuesday (03/07/2012).

"Therefore, our results provide an opportunity to develop oxytocin-based obesity treatment safe and effective."

By using an animal model of obese, Maejima found that daily injections of oxytocin have been successful in reducing the amount of food consumed by these animals, including losing weight during and after treatment.

Similar results were also obtained from oxytocin invested in a mini pump. This kind of treatment methods to reduce fat in the liver, improve glucose tolerance and reduce belly fat is the major risk factors of cardiovascular disease.

In addition, mini pumps also reduce the size of cells that can store fat (adipose) but did not affect blood pressure or the activity level of obese people.

The Sex - Is it safe to Moderate Use Vibrator While Pregnant?

The Sex - Doc, I have been married for 2 years. Now my wife was pregnant with the first, second trimester of pregnancy. The problem is, my wife and I had been accustomed to using sex toys in addition to the variation in our relationship my wife especially liked the vibrating vibrator.

I question whether the safe use of sex toys during pregnancy? Are there any negative effects on the content of my wife's doctor? Thank you.

Edward (Married Female, 27 years), angkasaXXXXX@yahoo.co.id,
Height: 170 cm Weight: 75 kg

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Sex-toy in the form of vibrating vibrator is relatively safe to use on second-trimester, when confined to parts of the vagina are superficial (outer). That is, do not use intra-vaginal vibrator. This is because fear will affect the amniotic fluid that surrounds the fetus, but can cause miscarriage (abortion).

Dr. Andri Wanananda, MS
Members of the Indonesian Doctors Association (IDI) and the Association of Sexology Indonesia (ASI) and lecturer at the Faculty of Medicine, University of Tarumanegara Jakarta.

The Sex - If not Epoch Again, Long-Term Contraceptives Use Only

The Sex - Contraception can help prevent unwanted pregnancies. But unfortunately, many women who do not want to get pregnant again but continue to use short-term contraceptives like the pill or injectable contraceptives.

"There are mothers who already had two children did not want to still use the pill to get pregnant again, it shows there is the possibility of failure risk," said Dr. Melania Hidayat, MPH as the NPO on Reproductive Health UNFPA UNFPA workshop event at the Tower of Thamrin, Jakarta, Monday (2 / 7/2012).

Dr. Melania clarify if it was not like to have more children should choose a long term contraception, but instead chose the short term. These conditions do not know if there are no good or counseling with such tools are not available.

The same was expressed by Dr Endang L Achadi of the UI College of Public Health, the use of such pills and injections KB should continuously or continuously. Generally, if people do not have the money then he does not buy the pill or injection, the condition is very risky to get pregnant again.

"Injections and pills is a major choice in the majority of people who do not want more children, it's easy but risky. Should use contraception permanent or long-term, but are more expensive or less affordable," said Dr Endang.

Long-term contraceptive use are more expensive, but the real pills and syringes should be used continuously so that the calculated price can be expensive because of continuous use.

"Unmet need (those who need contraception but not met) fell from 12.7 percent in 1991 to 8.6 percent in 2002/2003. But increased again to 9.1 percent in 2007 and the target in 2014 should reach 5 percent, "said Dr Endang.

Dr Endang explained by lower rates of unmet need means to reduce unwanted pregnancies, and in part to reduce the desire to have an abortion.

"The use of KB is still some obstacles, such as universal access, universal access is actually how that is achieved. For example, although the health service in sight, but because they do not have money so it would not be accessible," said Dr. Melania.