A child who is stubborn and temperamental may be shaped by
the environment in which children are raised. But it can also affect the nature
of the parents the child's personality.
Therefore, parents should adjust parenting styles to overcome the problem of child personality.
Many studies conducted on a temperamental child, one by psychiatrists Stella Chess and Alexander Thomas in New York in 1956 to observe the development of a group of children from birth to early adulthood.
Thomas and Chess found that the child's personality can be put into three basic categories are easy, difficult, and slow to respond to something with anger.
The study also identified other variables that are measured from the child's behavior such as desire, depression, activity level, attention, regularity of sleep, hunger and other biological functions.
The results show that people who automatically temperamental difficulty to blend with the surrounding environment. You must have the appropriate way to handle your child is irritable.
Arthur Robin, director of psychology training at Children's Hospital of Michigan in Detroit as reported from huffingtonpost, Tuesday (07/05/2012) describe some traits that can parents affect children's behavior:
A. One common problem found in children with ADHD or a temperamental mother is having a passive, depressed and lethargic.
"Children will be able to do whatever she likes because she does not have the assertiveness to care for and educate their children," said Robin.
2. Parents who are too flexible to make their children may deliberately act rigid and stubborn.
3. Parents are always satisfy her desire to have properties that will be easily spoiled and angry when her demands were not met immediately.
4. Sometimes the problem is rooted in temperamental attitude of parents, not children. If parents are very moody, the child will be prone to anger, fear and develop attitudes that closed because of the extreme attitudes of their parents.
Parents can choose the alternative with the participation of children in positive activities such as music lessons or other arts can enhance children's creativity but also can make a child can control his emotions.
Let your child choose his own clothes as well which one to wear and do not force something that did not like.
Psychological therapy in children may need to be done to identify other causes of why children are so temperamental as impaired fine motor coordination. The disorder can cause children difficulty even to tie his own shoes.
Therefore, parents should adjust parenting styles to overcome the problem of child personality.
Many studies conducted on a temperamental child, one by psychiatrists Stella Chess and Alexander Thomas in New York in 1956 to observe the development of a group of children from birth to early adulthood.
Thomas and Chess found that the child's personality can be put into three basic categories are easy, difficult, and slow to respond to something with anger.
The study also identified other variables that are measured from the child's behavior such as desire, depression, activity level, attention, regularity of sleep, hunger and other biological functions.
The results show that people who automatically temperamental difficulty to blend with the surrounding environment. You must have the appropriate way to handle your child is irritable.
Arthur Robin, director of psychology training at Children's Hospital of Michigan in Detroit as reported from huffingtonpost, Tuesday (07/05/2012) describe some traits that can parents affect children's behavior:
A. One common problem found in children with ADHD or a temperamental mother is having a passive, depressed and lethargic.
"Children will be able to do whatever she likes because she does not have the assertiveness to care for and educate their children," said Robin.
2. Parents who are too flexible to make their children may deliberately act rigid and stubborn.
3. Parents are always satisfy her desire to have properties that will be easily spoiled and angry when her demands were not met immediately.
4. Sometimes the problem is rooted in temperamental attitude of parents, not children. If parents are very moody, the child will be prone to anger, fear and develop attitudes that closed because of the extreme attitudes of their parents.
Parents can choose the alternative with the participation of children in positive activities such as music lessons or other arts can enhance children's creativity but also can make a child can control his emotions.
Let your child choose his own clothes as well which one to wear and do not force something that did not like.
Psychological therapy in children may need to be done to identify other causes of why children are so temperamental as impaired fine motor coordination. The disorder can cause children difficulty even to tie his own shoes.
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